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My First Time To Go To Kondangan

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On Saturday (July 4th, 2009) was my first time to go to wedding party aka kondangan ^^. Finally hihihi..

Pagi-pagi males bangun, karna biasanya kalo Sabtu brangkat ke pabrik dan kemaren adalah pengecualian: we went to wedding party nya Mas Apit. Molor-moloran di bawah bedcover yang maknyus banget angetnya, bikin makin males brangkat mandi. Padahal baju belum ada yang distrika ^^.

Udah kelar mandi, ribut naik turun tangga nyari orang buat dandanin. Maklum, amatir soal bersolek hihi. Kalo brangkat ke pabrik ga perlu dandan menor juga, udah bedakan aja udah syukur ^^. Akirnya jadilah aku memasrahkan masa depan image ku di tangan mbak Lala (dia berdalih kalo pernah ikut kursus make up, makanya aku pasrah aja..).

Karna emang ga pernah ke kondangan by myself sebelumnya, jadi gtau aturannya gimana. Tenyata ya sodara-sodara, amplopnya itu harusnya dikasihkan waktu pertama kali masuk huhuhu. Kok jadinya aku kemaren berasa makan di warung prasmanan ya, masuk -> makan -> bayar -> pulang. Gapapa deh, sama aja kok nilainya ^^ *ngeles*.

Dan ga lupa, foto-foto dulu sebelum pulang. Ini dia hasilnya..

Tsaah, tampak samping kiri (yang baju putih harusnya di crop aja ^^)
Tsaah, tampak samping kiri (yang baju putih harusnya di crop aja ^^)
Tampak samping kanan (kok ga penting ya hehehe)
Tampak samping kanan (kok ga penting ya hehehe)
Ki-Ka: Elly, Mbak Titie, Mbak Lala, Me (the cutest one *hoek*), Mbak Heni, Tita, Mbak Uul
Ki-Ka: Elly, Mbak Titie, Mbak Lala, Me (the cutest one *hoek*), Mbak Heni, Tita, Mbak Uul

Habis dari kondangan, kita lanjut ke PRJ. Rame bener… Plus macet. Di sana cuma keliling-keliling, beli sarung bantal 15ribu-an ma makan. Setelah merasa konde di betis udah cukup besar, kita memutuskan untuk pulang.

Tapi belum sampe di situ perjalananku hari Sabtu kemaren. Aku, Mbak La ma Mas Heri (cowonya Mbak La) mampir ke Semanggi buat nurutin hasrat nyidamnya Mbak La yang pengen nyobain Pizza di Avenue. Alhasil jadilah aku obat nyamuk. Huhuhu, pen ngeplakin mreka berdua, yang tak memahami deritaku LDR *lebay*.

Dengan nahan pipis selama 1 jam diperjalanan, karna toilet di Semanggi malesin banget, sampailah kami di Pavilion tercinta. Langsung aja aku ke kamar karna udah ga sabar tidur di kamar yang adem, dengan selimut yang super anget dan bantal kasur yang ampun enaknya^^.

See ya on the next post ^^.

A (Little Bit) Crazy Shopping Day

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On this Saturday, my senior is going to get married. It means, i have to buy some woman-equipment that i need to be used in the ceremony. Me, Pinky and Mbak Lala decided to go to Plaza Semanggi on Sunday at 9 am. Because of my stupidity, that can’t understand what did mbak Lala say, it made us (me and mbak La) used an old bus and Pinky used a good one huhuhu.

After arrived in Semanggi and entered Centro, i was getting khilaf and start looking for a suit clothes for me. But we had to get breakfast first, and we ate in King Burger humm yummy ^^. While eating, my eyes stared at Starbucks, that located in front of King Burger. Long time didn’t visit Starbucks hihi.

We were full and ready to spend some money in Centro, and i knew that yesterday was the last day for sale-day there. Actually, it’s hard to find a good-looking clothes for my taste. But i found enough cute clothes there. I got a red clothe, a black-executive-pants. I paid it first, but still looked for informal clothes ^^. And finally i added my shopping bag with a white clothe and brown-warm jacket.

Sale sale ^^
Sale sale ^^

Shopping made us hungry. Pinky and i went to food court to buy tom yam. Hmm, so delicious. A glass of orange juice made my lunch complete ^^.  I had more energy to find hand bag and high heels hohoho.

Yep, finally at 3.34 PM, we (me and pinky, because mbak La joined with her college friends) decided to finish our shopping day. I succeeded to bring 2 full shopping bags ^^. And before left Semanggi, we closed the shopping day by drinking a glass of coffee from starbucks in a good-121A-bus^^.

I’ve passed a-very-nice-weekend.

iced coffee
iced coffee

The King of Penguin Mafioso

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Yay, i,ve finally found The King Of My Penguin Mafioso hihihi, the biggest penguin doll that i’ve ever had. Not like before, my penguins are black and white penguin, now i have cute-blue-white penguin ^^. I found it in Mall Taman Anggrek.

Hope they can play together in my cold-uncontrollable-bedroom..

I’ll post their picture later ^^.

cute blue penguin
cute blue penguin

Back To The Past

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Seseorang pernah menulis diblognya. Kini, 4 tahun berlalu, aku seperti mengalami de javu. Mengulang isi blog itu, namun posisi kami saling bertukar. Everything is changing, and i have to deal with that.

Saya jadi tahu gimana rasanya melepas kepergian orang yang dicintai. Tidak, ini bukan tentang kematian (setidaknya secara fisik). Ini tentang kematian jiwa. Tentang sosok yang tadinya saya bangga bisa mencintainya, tapi kemudian hilang begitu saja.

Kalian percaya seseorang bisa berubah total hanya dalam hitungan hari? Tadinya saya juga tidak akan percaya, kalau tidak mengalami sendiri.

Jadi dia adalah seseorang yang sungguh saya sayangi. Dia orang yang sangat jarang bisa saya temui: tipe orang yang bilang ke saya “oke, pikiranmu memang aneh dan sama sekali ga bisa ku pahami, tapi ga masalah. Kita bisa melengkapi. Oke, kita memang sangat berbeda, tapi ga masalah. Aku masih bisa menyayangimu.”

Dua minggu yang lalu dia masih seseorang yang sungguh saya kenal. Saya tahu hanya kepada saya dia mengatakan hal-hal yang selama ini dia sembunyikan dari siapapun. Dia bilang kalo kita berdua mirip, karena dia merasa seringkali saya mengatakan apa yang selama ini dia pendam di hatinya.

Yap, dia bilang begitu tentang hal-hal dalam pikiran saya yang bagi kebanyakan orang adalah kegilaan. Dan dia bilang dia memikirkan hal yang sama. Bagaimana mungkin saya tidak menyayangi orang ini?

Tapi kemudian dia berubah total, baru beberapa hari yang lalu. Saya sungguh tak tahu apa yang terjadi, tapi sekarang baginya saya adalah pengganggu. Baginya saya adalah orang yang datang begitu saja, mencampuri hidupnya, orang yang bisa dengan enteng ditanya “apa yang kau inginkan dariku?”. Begitu saja dia berkata setelah beberapa hari kami tidak dapat saling bertegur sapa, dan sebelum itu kami tetap akrab seperti biasa.

Entahlah apa yang terjadi dalam waktu singkat itu. Mungkin seseorang merubahnya? Saya sama sekali tak percaya dia berubah pikiran semudah ini. Saya tahu seperti apa hatinya, meski mungkin tak tahu bagaimana dia sehari-harinya.

Dan saya, kali ini sebagai seorang yang terlalu memakai perasaan, memutuskan kalau bagi saya dia sudah mati. Dia muncul begitu saja menjadi seorang yang begitu berbeda, dan saya tidak bisa mengakuinya. Lebih baik saya anggap dia mati, serpihan kenangan yang selalu akan ada di hati. Sampai sekarang saya belum berjumpa dengannya, tapi saya tahu nanti bila waktu itu tiba, saya tidak akan lagi bisa melihat siapapun di sana.

It’s funny how your dreams
Change as you’re growing old
You dont wanna be no spaceman
You just want gold
All the dream stealers
Are lying in wait
But if you wanna be a spaceman
It’s still not too late (D’yer wanna be a spaceman-Oasis)

Move To New Boarding House

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Yay, finally i’ll move to another boarding house for woman, after passed 9 months in mixed-boarding house. Too fast, but im happy because i’ll face a new environment and get a better room and furniture ^^, even though the price is more expensive than the old one. This afternoon i will need a lot of energy to lift and move all of my stuff. Hell yeah, do somebody there want to help me?.

Let me think, what are my stuff?. Hmm, clothes, laptop, speakers, dolls (penguin mavioso ohohoho), books, cosmetics, bathing equipments, a big bookcase, carpet, doormat, this one, that one. Huaaa too much. Keep fighting!!. Pray for me guys ^^.

move move
hoosh hoosh ^^

Happiness

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According to The Sage’s English Dictionary and Thesaurus:

Happiness (noun) :

  1. Emotions experienced when in a state of well-being.
  2. State of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.

And what do you think bout happiness?

Like i said before, happiness is just a state of mind. If your mind says that you’re unhappy even though there’s no bad thing that happened, you’ll feel empty, get mad without a reason, get angry, pain and uncomfortable feeling. You will waste lot of energy to deal with that crappy feeling. Not only will it give bad effect to yourself, it will affect to others around you too.

Otherwise, if you get something bad, problems, pressures etc, that make you feel unhappy and you have reason to get mad or grumble, but your mind still can find something good behind all the sucky things, then you can feel the happiness.

Lately, i get angry actually, and i have a good reason to get mad. But i keep that feeling inside, train my self to control my emotion, and cool down. I sit down on my chair and listen to music (soundtrack of Boys Over Flowers), and those things work. I think if im angry and can’t control my mouth, i could tell rough words and finally i’ll regret it.

If i feel unhappy, mad or get something worse, i have several ways to get out from that-unhappy-feeling.

  1. Listen to music.
  2. Watch movies.
  3. Read books (esp. novel)
  4. Read blogs.
  5. Go to my kingdom and live my imagination. Something that i can’t reach in this real-world, i can get in my kingdom. No one could disturb or destroy it from my mind.

Take a deep breath, smile, and live your life ^^. There are no advantages for being sad and unhappy . Wake up, wake up..

Smile

I took the pic from here.

Long Distance Relationship

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Hmm, what should i write down over here? I just keep staring at my monitor and don’t know what to do, but i have many things to tell here hehehehe. Weird ^^

LDR, not that easy to keep moving on this term. But i have to face the truth, i must go far away from my bf’s side. It’s hard, but we’re still fine. For the first three months, we fought many times ahahaha. Maybe that was caused by the lack of communications and attentions. I was sulky frequently, umm maybe because i used to be spoiled to him and he’s not here around me anymore.

We have a relationship for 3 years, not a short time to build a relationship. Isn’t it?. We’re passing a terrible and hard time, especially he’s finishing his final paper and i can’t do anything to help him. It makes me feel guilty sometime, but i have to move here to work and learn to be independent.

To decrease the-intensity-of-fighting-time, we decided to increase our communications. He sends sms (because i feel too lazy to type on my cellphone hihihi), chat via YM, and he calls me everynight. And those things work. Then, I can see the positive points behind the-suck-LDR-things. Both of us can do many activities and have more-self-time, for example:

  • i can hang out with my friends
  • i can read many books
  • i can do women-activity (goes to beauty clinic hihihi)
  • he found his other talent, in photography ^^
  • he can finish his work faster, because i am not around to disturb him hihihi

Happiness is just a state of mind, likewise with the point of view. Behind the terrible things, you can get the positive points. Behind the good things, you can see the negativities. It would be better if we focus to reach our dreams and keep struggling this time, than think about something useless.

No matter how long the distance seperates us, as long as we have a same destination we will arrive in the same place.