Balado

Nah, udah pernah masak balado sekali dan sukses, trus pas mau masak lagi kok lupa bumbunya *dudul*. Skarang diposting saja. Lagi-lagi tanpa gambar T_T. Yang bisa dibalado udang ato cumi.

Bahan:
Udang ato cumi 1/4 kg.

Bumbu:
Garam
Bawang putih 2 butir
Bawang merah 5 butir
Cabe rawit 2 buah (sesuai selera)
Cabe merah besar 2 buah

Cara:

  1. Berishkan dulu udangnya, cuci. Ulek bawang putih dan garam. Setelah halus dikasih air dan lumurkan pada udang.
  2. Goreng udang tadi sampai hampir matang (jangan terlalu lama).
  3. Potong bawang merah dan cabe, goreng sebentar agar mudah menguleknya. Kemudian haluskan dan beri garam sedikit.
  4. Goreng bumbu yang sudah dihaluskan dalam 3 sendok makan minyak goreng.
  5. Jika sudah harum, masukkan udang goreng tadi. Bolak-balik hingga merata dengan bumbu.

Sudah selesai dan masakan siap dihidangkan ^^. Selamat mencoba.

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A (Little Bit) Crazy Shopping Day

On this Saturday, my senior is going to get married. It means, i have to buy some woman-equipment that i need to be used in the ceremony. Me, Pinky and Mbak Lala decided to go to Plaza Semanggi on Sunday at 9 am. Because of my stupidity, that can’t understand what did mbak Lala say, it made us (me and mbak La) used an old bus and Pinky used a good one huhuhu.

After arrived in Semanggi and entered Centro, i was getting khilaf and start looking for a suit clothes for me. But we had to get breakfast first, and we ate in King Burger humm yummy ^^. While eating, my eyes stared at Starbucks, that located in front of King Burger. Long time didn’t visit Starbucks hihi.

We were full and ready to spend some money in Centro, and i knew that yesterday was the last day for sale-day there. Actually, it’s hard to find a good-looking clothes for my taste. But i found enough cute clothes there. I got a red clothe, a black-executive-pants. I paid it first, but still looked for informal clothes ^^. And finally i added my shopping bag with a white clothe and brown-warm jacket.

Sale sale ^^

Sale sale ^^

Shopping made us hungry. Pinky and i went to food court to buy tom yam. Hmm, so delicious. A glass of orange juice made my lunch complete ^^.  I had more energy to find hand bag and high heels hohoho.

Yep, finally at 3.34 PM, we (me and pinky, because mbak La joined with her college friends) decided to finish our shopping day. I succeeded to bring 2 full shopping bags ^^. And before left Semanggi, we closed the shopping day by drinking a glass of coffee from starbucks in a good-121A-bus^^.

I’ve passed a-very-nice-weekend.

iced coffee

iced coffee

Woman and Career

Until this time, i am still confused about the boundaries of women emancipation, the issue that’s used by women to get the same right especially on career field. 21th April is commemorated as Kartini Day, the woman who fought for the women emancipation.

Previously, on Raden Ayu Kartini era, women didn’t have right to get a good education. They just stayed at home and belong to bedroom, kitchen and draw-well. You can read about Kartini on this link. I am writing this, just want to share my opinion, no offense. I just want to write something from my thought, as a woman.

Nowadays, many men are asking about the natural tendency of a woman, because there’re a lot of career women. Is it right to choose for being a career woman than being a housewife? I can’t give you a good answer, because it depends on the person and the situation. I’ll give you some reasons why i need to have my own job, especially my own earning.

  1. I need to have a community and environmental associations. I mean, if I just be a housewife, I can’t get much information and experiences about many things. In office, me and my friends can share our thought and vision about something.
  2. There’s no guarantee from my future husband to fulfill the household necessities. Then, I have to stand and support my (future) husband. I don’t want something bad to happen neither to my children nor my marriage that’s caused by my weak financial foundation.
  3. There’re already a lot of cases that bother me, a husband can leave his wife and children just for another or others woman. Nice case that scare me, some women are married by jerks. Then, the wife will be taking care of the children, and covering all of the needs including the education’s cost. What will happen if the wife doesn’t have a job?.
  4. If I have an earning, I can spend it to do many things without bothering my (future) husband earning that will be used to cover the household necessities. I don’t want to add burden on his solder to fund my shopping expenses.
  5. If I have a job from now on and keep it going, I can fight for reaching a better career and better earning. Then, when my children are growing up in the next several years, I already have a good job and earning, I hope. And, I can take care of them without the feeling of guilty or worry about their future.
  6. As long as I am single, I can help others or try to make my family happy with what I’ve got.

Yap, that’s all. But, it’s not right if a woman just focus to her career, and ignore her family.

Don’t go against the nature as a woman.

Wanita Tangguh

Pagi ini kakakku mengirimkan pesan singkat, yang sangat singkat. Berisi kegagalannya dalam tes masuk salah satu departemen di negara ini. Ini bukan pertama, kedua, kelima atau kesepuluh kegagalan yang diterimanya.

Entah apa yang berkecamuk di batinnya. Aku pun tak pernah tau. Kereta api, bis, mengantarnya dalam menjalani satu persatu tes keparat itu. Kegagalan demi kegagalanlah berita yang selalu diterimanya.

Puluhan atau mungkin lebih dari seratus map coklat itu telah dikirimnya ke berbagai tempat. Untuk mendapatkan pekerjaan yang diinginkannya, walaupun dia juga telah memiliki pekerjaan saat ini.

Dan dia tak pernah lelah untuk mencoba dan mencoba lagi. Wanita tangguh, pikirku. Karena aku (mungkin) takkan mampu menerima sebagian kegagalannya dengan segala kemudahan yang aku terima dari dulu hingga sekarang.

Teruslah berusaha, kami mendoakanmu 🙂 .

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